Drive- Thru Sex: The Quickie

by Gina Parris

Drive-Thru Sex: The Quickie – By J at HotHolyHumorous In her 29 Days to Great Sex series, Sheila Gregoire posted Quickies Are Great! I agree. What is a quickie? According to Dictionary.com, it’s simply “a hurried sexual encounter.” A quickie can be any sexual encounter — intercourse, oral sex, hand job, etc. — that occurs [...]

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How to Have a Happier Marriage by Eliminating the Option of Divorce

by Gina Parris

Note: The following article was written by my friend, Gregory Blake. I loved it when I first read it on his Rated G. Romance Blog as well as at his newest project WeFulness.com (The intersection of heart and mind.) I love how he applied this brain science to the topic of marriage and divorce. What [...]

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Gina Parris in the Huffington Post

by Gina Parris

I just wanted to share with my readers a pretty cool article that was written about me in the Huffington Post. I am flattered to be called “The Tim Tebow of Performance Coaching and Sex.” haha If you’ve ever really wondered what exactly I do, than the author got it quite clear here,  the Good, [...]

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How To Communicate Effectively When You are Angry

by Gina Parris

This week I saw a tweet on Twitter from a very well known marriage guru that said this: “It’s very difficult if not impossible to communicate when you are angry.” I noticed that several people had retweeted him, apparently as a sign of agreement. But hold on a minute. Really? It’s impossible to communicate when [...]

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45 Ways to Be a Kind and Generous Lover

by Gina Parris

I mentioned recently that I am inspired to become a more generous wife.  Not only that, but in the days since I wrote those words, I turned 45. FORTY FIVE!! For a few moments on my birthday I had a bit of a mid-life crises, realizing that when the next 45 years are over I’ll [...]

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Is Generosity More Important than Sex for a Happy Marriage?

by Gina Parris

Several years ago, Paul and I were flipping through the television channels when we stopped on the opening scenes from Anna and the King starring Jody Foster. As the king’s harem is singing and dancing, one experienced concubine comforts a new “recruit?” who is frightened to be there, and who obviously is in love with [...]

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Confessions of an Unromantic Romance Expert

by Gina Parris

Confession: I am not very romantic. Fact: Neither is my husband, The Sailor. I know this because recently while on vacation, we bought a book at the bookstore called 10001 Ways to be Romantic. That’s One THOUSAND and one ways, mind you. About 2 of them seemed like something we would actually do. I bought [...]

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You Are Sexier Than You Think

by Gina Parris

You are Sexier than you think: Have you ever noticed that it is difficult to enjoy really great sex when you feel utterly unsexy? This is especially true for women. Scientists say that the human female, is the only species that gets aroused by her own pheromones. That’s just great. (or a little weird.) What [...]

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Restoring Love & Passion in Your Marriage pt 2

by Gina Parris
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How to Restore Love when You’re Angry We said last time that the secret to restoring love when you’re angry is to realize that the only person you can control is your self. You can ask for supernatural help to love someone who is striking you as very unlovely. So, that’s all well and good, [...]

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Restoring Love & Passion in Your Marriage Part 1

by Gina Parris

I often get emails from spouses who are nearly insane with frustration in their marriage. Often they say their marriage looks like a happy one to others, but inside they are miserable. They articulate the insensitivity of their mate with very convincing arguments. They validate their fury. They list the ways they feel trapped, used [...]

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